Day 03 — Regardless of my current status, do I believe a person should save themself for marriage…
Regardless of my current status, I do believe a person should save themselves for marriage. To reserved themselves for marriage is what and only ideal picture. Many do and always believe in that. I am too.
Tho, I wonder…… Have you wonder? Love is so mysterious that even your beliefs, Love tear them down! I don’t know if you see love that way! I am. I believe in love. Yes, you got it right! (kinda confusing?) I believe in what been asked today, and yes I willing to give myself to the man who hold my heart not so tight BUT holding me enough to believe in us. Not to the extent that I’m going to trade it just to make him stay! No way! That’s not suppose to be. Love is something to be respect. Begging someone to stay in our lives… maybe you can think of that but if you love yourself enough …… you don’t want do it cos at the end, regret is what only waiting for you!
Owhps.. wait.. Am I talking the right topic here? LOL ~ This is how I understand the question for today! About reserving oneself for marriage.. to be exact, referring to Virginity!! Giving oneself before marriage or not!
I even made a post about this. About reserving the girl he loves. He did his best to reserve the woman he love much!
Reserving one another is a mutual understanding!
Anyways, let me say my whole blast thoughts about this topic…..
We know married is sacred. Before being pronounced as husband and wife, they oath to love, to cherish each other, “till death to us part”. Tho, If it sacred why there’s what we call arranged marriage? If it is sacred, why lawmakers made divorce/annulment? If marriage is sacred why there’s a broken homes? Could love be blame on this? I don’t see the point! Of course, there are lot of instances why divorce/annulment is here today. Unhappy family is one of the valid instances we reason out.
What I’m going to ask next is… what’s the use of saving oneself for marriage, if marriage today is meaningless than before? I admit, I’m thinking to be with someone for the entire life I had in this world but engaging in marriage wasn’t in my mind. Hmmm, weird thing is… every girl around me wish to have perfect wedding, while thinking of their dream I’m drifting a way around. Maybe, I’m too young to think about marriage. I respect the sacredness of marriage. I do! My parents are happily married until now and I believe they love each other till death. Despite of their difference, which I can really see that everyday, they still love to be each other.
Look around you. Lust, Sex, flirt is everywhere. Will you redeem yourself from it? Would you stand to what you believe in? There’s one thing I want to share, in a boy and girl relationship does making love is normal? Note, marriage is not yet there. One of my friend when I was still in high school said that…. making love is normal in boy-girl relationship. Where sex intercourse is only allowed for married couple. I guess today’s generation is really into it. Hellooooo..condoms, pills are there and here. Who wouldn’t attempt to do it? Many teenagers are young parents now because of only one night mistake, even minor starting to form a family. Its sad cos reaching their dreams, they only have a least of chances to do it.
I want to hear something from you guys….
PS: I’m still waiting for the one who can break my beliefs too!
Happy Blogging !!!
©Shira2012
I admire your thoughts on todays questions,my friend! One of my greatest regrets in life is that I didn’t (wait until marriage),that’s something one can never get back,awesome choice! :D
The DC
Thanks Steve!
I understand what you mean. Sometimes being in love is enough to shatter everything you believed up until that point.
I hate the fact that a lot of people out there use sex as a way to get people to do things. It makes sex seem so dirty to me. I know a lot of girls who lost their virginity to a guy to delay the break up and it never ends well. Same with people who only have children to “save the marriage.” People need to realize that sometimes things have to fall apart for better things to come together and that “trying to fix things” will only make things worse most of the time.
Many were separated cos they commit too early. Some were selfish. I think not all are getting worse when some are trying to fix things….. I believe in chance where you can do things right. It depends on every situation. Counseling must always be there.
Very well stated. And yes, “Reserving one another is a mutual understanding!”
Thank You
I think you have very nicely expressed both sides of the coin. There is no straight answers here. You have to choose what you would believe to be the best and be positive about it.. The questions on relevance of definition of marriage and actual marriages, keeping in mind the reality of what is happening, is quite relevant
I guess, you’ll never get a straight answer when you believe both side, unless someone will break ‘em down! (now…am confused too :P )
Seriously, beliefs won’t really much applicable in reality.
True. :-) But it is important to look both sides and check which holds more arguments in its favor and decide accordingly :-) Of course, you can be absolutely one or other also :-)
Yep, some lil tricky arguments… lol