Weekly Photo Challenge: In The Background

My sister finally got married :D

Happy for both of them, so much.

WPC: In the background

What? – Is She High?

So there’s an average couple. Third party came and she gave in, she cheated. Then the night of confrontation, after her loving husband asked her to go home with him with all the tears flowing in his cheeks, and she will just say “You’re such a good guy, I really hope you will find nice girl”. What?, is she high? And in the end, that guy whom she felt something more will just hit her? Aw man!

The movie Temptation (click the link for trailer) is what I am talking about. I saw this movie in suggestion list so I download it. Watching the movie, watching how she wanted to be wanted crushed her makes me strongly believe that contentment is what we all need.

 

By the way, hello everyone!

30DHB +1Dare: Day 14 (Replacement)

Day 14 — Because my parents never found out, I remember getting away with __________ as a teenager…

Because I can’t relate on Question #14, going to use the Alternative Question:

Alternative question: Your daughter tells you she is bringing home her boyfriend for dinner. When they arrive, she introduces you to a man who is not your same race. Sometime during dinner she announces that they have been married for the last six months. What bothers you more? The difference in race or being excluded from the wedding…

If ever someday I will have a daughter that will be bringing home with her boyfriend for dinner and reveal to us that she marries the man that has different race and without our knowledge about the wedding, surely I will welcome them still as part of our family!

Marriage is a union of two people into one! And guest will never matter as long as they truly love each other. Races, religion or whatever indicator of differences of people will no longer be difference between two people who only sees love and hope!

Races and being excluded from the wedding doesn’t bother me at all!

Have a great day!!

I’m a McDo Girl ©Shira2012

30 Days Of Blogging Honesty + One Dare: Day 3

Day 03 — Regardless of my current status, do I believe a person should save themself for marriage…

Regardless of my current status, I do believe a person should save themselves for marriage. To reserved themselves for marriage is what and only ideal picture. Many do and always believe in that. I am too.

Tho, I wonder…… Have you wonder? Love is so mysterious that even your beliefs, Love tear them down! I don’t know if you see love that way! I am. I believe in love. Yes, you got it right! (kinda confusing?) I believe in what been asked today, and yes I willing to give myself to the man who hold my heart not so tight BUT holding me enough to believe in us. Not to the extent that I’m going to trade it just to make him stay! No way! That’s not suppose to be. Love is something to be respect. Begging someone to stay in our lives… maybe you can think of that but if you love yourself enough …… you don’t want do it cos at the end, regret is what only waiting for you!

Owhps.. wait.. Am I talking the right topic here? LOL ~ This is how I understand the question for today! About reserving oneself for marriage.. to be exact, referring to Virginity!! Giving oneself before marriage or not!

I even made a post about this. About reserving the girl he loves. He did his best to reserve the woman he love much!

Reserving one another is a mutual understanding!

Anyways, let me say my whole blast thoughts about this topic…..

We know married is sacred. Before being pronounced as husband and wife, they oath to love, to cherish each other, “till death to us part”. Tho, If it sacred why there’s what we call arranged marriage? If it is sacred, why lawmakers made divorce/annulment? If marriage is sacred why there’s a broken homes? Could love be blame on this? I don’t see the point! Of course, there are lot of instances why divorce/annulment is here today. Unhappy family is one of the valid instances we reason out.

What I’m going to ask next is… what’s the use of saving oneself for marriage, if marriage today is meaningless than before? I admit, I’m thinking to be with someone for the entire life I had in this world but engaging in marriage wasn’t in my mind. Hmmm, weird thing is… every girl around me wish to have perfect wedding, while thinking of their dream I’m drifting a way around. Maybe, I’m too young to think about marriage. I respect the sacredness of marriage.  I do! My parents are happily married until now and I believe they love each other till death. Despite of their difference, which I can really see that everyday, they still love to be each other.

Look around you. Lust, Sex, flirt is everywhere. Will you redeem yourself from it? Would you stand to what you believe in? There’s one thing I want to share, in a boy and girl relationship does making love is normal? Note, marriage is not yet there. One of my friend when I was still in high school said that…. making love is normal in boy-girl relationship. Where sex intercourse is only allowed for married couple. I guess today’s generation is really into it. Hellooooo..condoms, pills are there and here. Who wouldn’t attempt to do it? Many teenagers are young parents now because of only one night mistake, even minor starting to form a family. Its sad cos reaching their dreams, they only have a least of chances to do it.

I want to hear something from you guys….

PS: I’m still waiting for the one who can break my beliefs too!

Happy Blogging !!!

©Shira2012