Day 03 — Regardless of my current status, do I believe a person should save themself for marriage…
Regardless of my current status, I do believe a person should save themselves for marriage. To reserved themselves for marriage is what and only ideal picture. Many do and always believe in that. I am too.
Tho, I wonder…… Have you wonder? Love is so mysterious that even your beliefs, Love tear them down! I don’t know if you see love that way! I am. I believe in love. Yes, you got it right! (kinda confusing?) I believe in what been asked today, and yes I willing to give myself to the man who hold my heart not so tight BUT holding me enough to believe in us. Not to the extent that I’m going to trade it just to make him stay! No way! That’s not suppose to be. Love is something to be respect. Begging someone to stay in our lives… maybe you can think of that but if you love yourself enough …… you don’t want do it cos at the end, regret is what only waiting for you!
Owhps.. wait.. Am I talking the right topic here? LOL ~ This is how I understand the question for today! About reserving oneself for marriage.. to be exact, referring to Virginity!! Giving oneself before marriage or not!
I even made a post about this. About reserving the girl he loves. He did his best to reserve the woman he love much!
Reserving one another is a mutual understanding!
Anyways, let me say my whole blast thoughts about this topic…..
We know married is sacred. Before being pronounced as husband and wife, they oath to love, to cherish each other, “till death to us part”. Tho, If it sacred why there’s what we call arranged marriage? If it is sacred, why lawmakers made divorce/annulment? If marriage is sacred why there’s a broken homes? Could love be blame on this? I don’t see the point! Of course, there are lot of instances why divorce/annulment is here today. Unhappy family is one of the valid instances we reason out.
What I’m going to ask next is… what’s the use of saving oneself for marriage, if marriage today is meaningless than before? I admit, I’m thinking to be with someone for the entire life I had in this world but engaging in marriage wasn’t in my mind. Hmmm, weird thing is… every girl around me wish to have perfect wedding, while thinking of their dream I’m drifting a way around. Maybe, I’m too young to think about marriage. I respect the sacredness of marriage. I do! My parents are happily married until now and I believe they love each other till death. Despite of their difference, which I can really see that everyday, they still love to be each other.
Look around you. Lust, Sex, flirt is everywhere. Will you redeem yourself from it? Would you stand to what you believe in? There’s one thing I want to share, in a boy and girl relationship does making love is normal? Note, marriage is not yet there. One of my friend when I was still in high school said that…. making love is normal in boy-girl relationship. Where sex intercourse is only allowed for married couple. I guess today’s generation is really into it. Hellooooo..condoms, pills are there and here. Who wouldn’t attempt to do it? Many teenagers are young parents now because of only one night mistake, even minor starting to form a family. Its sad cos reaching their dreams, they only have a least of chances to do it.
I want to hear something from you guys….
PS: I’m still waiting for the one who can break my beliefs too!
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©Shira2012
